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A smile doesn't mean I want to sleep with you

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UNWANTED attention from men; it's a day to day occurrence for many women, you could be on the tube, the bus, or walking down the street and you can guarantee you will be stared at, or approached by some guy (usually quite a sleazy guy!) trying to get his wicked way. How do you respond to this type of unwanted attention? Smiling at him is a polite option, however the big problem with this is that a smile from an attractive woman, to a horny man, is the equivalent of her jumping on him and screaming "take me!"

It's true that women are flattered by male attention, any woman that says she's not is lying. Men finding us attractive and approaching us makes us feel good about ourselves, boosting our confidence, as it's confirmation that we are desirable, despite us having a bad hair or skin day. It's quite sad, but it's true. The smile a woman gives a guy after she has caught him looking at her, is not always her signalling him to approach her, it might be just a thankful smile for making her feel beautiful.

So fellas, the next time you see a hot girl you can't take your eyes off, and she appears to be smiling at you, CALM DOWN! Be careful in your advances, as there is the possibility that she might not want to go to bed with you!

 


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Go to bed with me?

How could she ... she doesn't know me yet ... and if I say and do nothing, she never will. However, if I say hello, and ask if she'd join me for a drink, then we may both gain a friend, which may possibly lead to more ... or not. If she's not interested, she has the option of saying no, and we go our separate ways.

In what way is this scenario unacceptable?


Unwanted attention

I hear what you're saying totally...I've had some pretty unpleasant experiences before after politely smiling back. 

Sometimes a guy could just be having a good day and decide to give a harmless friendly smile to a pretty girl he sees. 

What can one do? Just walk around with an unpleasant expression on your face only to be judged as being a moody cow? It can be a very ambiguous situation.  


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Chris Gaynor

I agree, but remember, some (not all) women are also good at leading men on!

So, a smile may well be friendly, but men are men, and it is natural to think they may be in with a chance if a pretty woman opens her cheek up at him.